New Year's Resolution: Eating In

When our hominid ancestors first put flame to food, it must have seemed like quite a magical endeavor. And just imagine the excitement when humans realized that not only could fire give us light, heat and degree of protection against wild animals, but that it could also transform the flavour and texture of our food!

A whole world of edibles opened up including many roots, tubers and leaves that are too tough to eat raw.

There remains a certain amount of mystique around this simple act of applying heat to food. An unfortunate by-product of this can be feelings of intimidation or simply an unwillingness to cook or experiment in the kitchen.

Don't let a few botched attempts at an extravagant recipe discourage you!

It's in your best interest to conquer these feelings of intimidation. Namely because home cooked eating is less expensive than eating out, and it's healthier. What of the convenience? Well, you do have to do your own dishes, however you can also eat in your underwear, while watching TV, with your favourite animal friend by your side. Sign me up!

Here are a few tips to help you enjoy your time in the kitchen:

Attitude:
Food is a conduit for love. Making a meal full of things your body needs is an act of love, as is making a meal for family or friends.

Feeding yourself and others can bring an intense sense of fulfillment when viewed in this light. Revel in it!

Proper tools:
Let's keep things simple shall we? You need a chef's knife and a steel to sharpen it with. These two things are the key to all going smoothly and efficiently. They are desert island type requirements.

Get a proper sized knife that fits comfortably in your hand. Let it be an extension of your arm. Ask the vendor how to hold the knife properly and how to use the steel to sharpen it.

All you really need now is a wooden cutting board and fresh ingredients!

Everything else is gravy. You can use hand me down pots and ancient spoons. Your food will still come out just as delicious. Once you get in the swing of things, you may decide to upgrade a few items. When you do, avoid Teflon and plastic.

My personal guilty pleasure is a small inexpensive rice cooker (under $20). You will never EVER burn your rice again. Turn it on and forget about it until you are ready to eat.


Atmosphere:
Cooking should not feel like a punishment. Create an atmosphere that is comfortable. Include anything that elevates your mood: music, company, lighting, snacks, refreshments. What works best for you?

Enjoy solitude when working? Kick everyone out of the kitchen and tell them it will be worth their while! Want company? Ask a friend to pull up a chair, or a cutting board.

Think about what puts you at ease and flow with it.

Personally I love when I have the kitchen to myself, great music I can sing along to, a huge mug of spiced rooibus tea (or glass of white wine if the evening is more festive), and of course a clean kitchen to start off in.

Hosting:
The food you choose to share does not have to be fancy or exotic. If things are taking a bit longer than planned or you are anxious about the way a recipe turned out, distract guests with snacks, yummy beverages, or booze. (Shhhhhh! Don't tell anyone I said this, but a tipsy guest loves almost anything you put in front of them). Keep dessert small and simple. It usually goes unnoticed by the majority of guests anyway.

If you're caught up in trying to show off how fabulous your hosting skills are, you've immediately set yourself up for a stressful evening. Comedienne Amy Sedaris says that when you have people over for a meal, you are basically saying "I like you!". Let that sentiment carry you through your preparations and don't get too bogged down in the details of the recipe or the display.

Food Preparation:
Recipes involve a bit of chemistry, a bit of love, and super fresh ingredients.
Remember, you are more than an observer in their execution. Most recipes are created on the bland side to suit most palates. Your creative hand is required! Add a little more spice, salt, sweet or sour. Be bold and your dish will mirror your confidence.

Feel restricted by recipes? Ditch your cookbooks, or just use the pretty pictures as inspiration. Don't worry, this is the one kind of book for which no one will judge you for only looking at the pictures.

Now the really fun part: how you are going to spend the money you save on take-out and tips?